VirtFlowersSorry flowers, and the words they need
A bouquet doesn’t replace an apology, but it helps you make one. Here’s which flowers people usually send to make up, how to write the note in your own words, and how to send a bouquet in Telegram when you can’t be there.
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- What to send
- white or red roses, soft colours
- Note
- up to 255 characters, shown with the bouquet
- Delivery
- a Telegram message, instantly
- Will you know
- the bot tells you when it’s opened
Which flowers say sorry
White flowers are the usual choice: they read as a wish to start over. White roses, white lilac and orchids are calm and not too showy.
Red roses fit when the argument was with someone close: they say “I love you” as well as “I’m sorry”. For a coworker or a friend, go neutral: tulips, spray roses, gypsophila.
Loud party bouquets and huge armfuls rarely help. They look like an attempt to buy your way out.
How to apologize so the flowers help
A few rules that work with flowers or without them.
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Words first
Flowers without an apology look like a brush-off. Say it or write it; let the bouquet back it up.
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Name what you did
“Sorry I snapped at you yesterday” sounds more honest than “sorry if I upset you”.
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No “but”
“I’m sorry, but you also…” cancels everything before the comma.
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Say what will change
One specific thing beats ten promises.
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Don’t rush them
They may need time. No need to ask whether they saw the flowers.
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Respect a no
If they blocked you or asked you not to write, sending gifts through friends is pressure.
Apology notes in your own words
Use these as a starting point and make them yours. Plain words and specifics work best.
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To your girlfriend
I’m sorry about last night. I was wrong and took it out on you. Let’s talk when you’re ready.
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To your boyfriend
Sorry for what I said. I really regret it. I’ll call tonight if that’s okay.
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To a friend
I forgot your big day and I feel awful. Tell me how it went?
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To a buddy
I was wrong, I admit it. Drinks are on me; the flowers are a down payment.
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To a coworker
Sorry for being short with you in the meeting. You were right, I was rushing.
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To mom
Sorry I don’t call enough, Mom. I’m fixing it, and this is step one.
How to send an apology bouquet
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Pick a bouquet
Open VirtFlowers in Telegram. There are white roses, white lilac and red roses in a box.
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Write the note
In your own words, up to 255 characters.
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Send it privately
Pay with Telegram Stars and choose a private chat. The bot tells you when they open it.
Bouquets people send to make up
Tap a bouquet to open it in Telegram.
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Prices in Telegram Stars. Looking at bouquets and putting them on your table is free.
Questions about sorry flowers
Won’t a virtual bouquet look like a cop-out?
It can, if you send it instead of talking. Sent with honest words, or after a conversation, it shows you thought about them and didn’t wait until you could meet.
Which flowers are best for an apology?
Usually white ones: white roses, white lilac, an orchid. Red roses work for a partner. Save bright party bouquets for another occasion.
Will I know when they open it?
Yes. @virtflowers_bot messages you when they open the gift.
Can I send it if they blocked me?
No. If they blocked you in Telegram, the message won’t get through. And don’t try to get around it: that’s their decision.
Is the gift anonymous?
No, they see your Telegram name. For an apology, that’s how it should be.
How much does it cost?
Browsing is free. Gifts are 111 to 662 Telegram Stars; the orchid is free.
Make the first move
Open VirtFlowers in Telegram, pick a bouquet and write what you’ve been meaning to say.
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